Thursday, August 28, 2008

3/4 of the way there...

OK folks, we got Beatrice's passport today!! Now we are just waiting for sweet little Elias'. Our guy on the ground in Ghana will be out of town until Monday, so let's all pray that the passport gets processed tomorrow, and we find out on Monday (no labor day in Ghana)... whadayasay?!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Dizzy Anyone?

Anyone else getting a little light headed trying to read this blog? I think I may have to play around with new backgrounds tonight. My head is spinnin' with this one!!

Saturday, August 23, 2008

No Passports This Week For Us...

But my good friend Fabu got hers! Head on over to Ghana Adopt Three and congratulate her family. We all heard early in the day yesterday that 'someone' got their passports. About 8 p.m. (longest day EVER) we got the great news that Fabu got her little darlin's. The good news for us is that passports ARE coming out, we just need to wait a little while longer. It literally could be any day, well, not today, being Saturday and all, but you know what I mean. Another of my good friends, that I had the pleasure of meeting in Ghana, is in my boat too. If you don't mind, please say a little prayer for both of our families, this waiting business is tough. The worst part is that we can't explain to our kids in Ghana why we aren't there yet. I pray that God gives them peace and patience.... and us too!!!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

The Waiting Game...

Well, we have been getting in lots of waiting practice lately. We are learning what real patience is all about. It has given me plenty of time to talk to God about how I feel about this situation, and for Him to talk to me about, well... me. Apparently this whole thing is not about me. God is much bigger than that.

The Lord has it all worked out the way that will be to His greatest glory, and He works all things out for good. It is our job to be still, get closer to Him and glorify Him in our waiting. Everybody doing that? Good, me either. I am at a peaceful place right now, though, and am waiting expectantly to see what He has for us.

Here are some reasons that have come to mind about why we may be waiting so long.

1. Every day that those kids stay in Ghana is one day longer that they are immersed in their culture, one day longer to cement in their memories their birth land.

2. Stella and Beatrice (and 3 other girls whose families are waiting for passports also) are the 'heads of the household'. They have been at Eban House the longest. They are the leaders. They know the ropes and are teaching the 'newbies' how the process works. Maybe someone there really needs them right now, even more than we need them here. Especially in light of the tragedy that they all witnessed.

3. Maybe we, the parents, need some time to REALLY miss them, ACHE for them, so that we can appreciate them, even in all of the struggles that may occur once they are home. So that we may never say, "This is too hard, what in the world have I done?".

4. Maybe our reactions to the waiting are speaking to someone here.

5. Maybe we are being taught a lesson.

6. Maybe there is a divine appointment in Ghana that we must keep, and the time has not yet come. A chance to witness to somebody, or meeting your next child perhaps... (Robin, you NEED a boy, Fabu, you have extra room now, right?) :)

7. Maybe we will never know, but God does. And that is always enough.

Just random thoughts, but they have given me a measure of peace through this, and graciousness to deal with the hundreds of people a day asking "when do you bring home the kids?".

Isaiah 40:31
but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength;
they shall mount up with wings like eagles;
they shall run and not be weary;
they shall walk and not faint.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

New Dreams

When contemplating having nine children, ones dreams and aspirations must necessarily change. My new take my breath away, gotta have it dream is this:


Coming in a very close 2nd are the, to die for Whirlpool Duet washer and dryer:

Aaaah, a 15 passenger conversion van with cup holders and a DVD player, and a washer and dryer that can wash 16 pairs of jeans at a time... a girl can only dream....

Friday, August 15, 2008

NOPE

Still praying and hoping for those passports.

Thursday, August 14, 2008